"The only thing I can't stand is discomfort"
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The phrasing is strategically intimate. “Can’t stand” is physical, not ideological. It drags politics out of the seminar room and back into the nervous system. That matters in feminist organizing, where the culture routinely weaponizes “comfort” against change: be polite, don’t make men defensive, don’t make dinner awkward, don’t make the workplace tense. Steinem reframes that pressure as the point. If injustice is maintained by everyone’s willingness to tolerate unease, then intolerance of discomfort becomes a motor for action.
There’s also a sly rebuke to performative toughness. Movements don’t run on endless martyrdom; they run on attention and stamina. Steinem’s intent is less “I’m brave” than “I refuse to normalize what should feel wrong.” Read in the context of second-wave feminism’s battles over consciousness-raising, sexual harassment, and domestic labor, the line becomes a reminder that progress often starts as a cringe you stop talking yourself out of. Discomfort is the cost of telling the truth in a room that benefits from your silence.
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Steinem, Gloria. (2026, January 15). The only thing I can't stand is discomfort. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-thing-i-cant-stand-is-discomfort-146542/
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Steinem, Gloria. "The only thing I can't stand is discomfort." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-thing-i-cant-stand-is-discomfort-146542/.
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"The only thing I can't stand is discomfort." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-thing-i-cant-stand-is-discomfort-146542/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.







