"The only thing of weight that can be said against modern honor is that it is directly opposite to religion. The one bids you bear injuries with patience, the other tells you if you don't resent them, you are not fit to live"
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The phrasing is designed to sharpen the collision. Religion “bids” you to endure injury; honor “tells you” you’re “not fit to live” unless you retaliate. That escalation from guidance to existential disqualification is the point. Honor isn’t a private virtue in Mandeville’s frame; it’s social coercion. It converts a bruise to the ego into a public emergency, then makes violence (or at least reprisal) feel like self-respect rather than compulsion.
The subtext is bleakly modern: what looks like dignity is often fear of being downgraded in the eyes of others. Honor culture doesn’t need courts or theology; it needs spectators. Resentment becomes a performance of personhood, and patience becomes a kind of social suicide.
Context matters. Early 18th-century Britain is debating commerce, politeness, and the waning of aristocratic dueling codes, while Christianity still supplies the official language of morality. Mandeville, famous for arguing that “private vices” can yield “public benefits,” is poking at the hypocrisy: a society that preaches humility but quietly relies on pride and retaliation to police behavior. He’s not asking you to choose religion over honor. He’s asking you to notice how often “virtue” is just the name we give to whatever keeps the social machine running.
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Mandeville, Bernard de. (2026, January 15). The only thing of weight that can be said against modern honor is that it is directly opposite to religion. The one bids you bear injuries with patience, the other tells you if you don't resent them, you are not fit to live. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-thing-of-weight-that-can-be-said-against-157793/
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Mandeville, Bernard de. "The only thing of weight that can be said against modern honor is that it is directly opposite to religion. The one bids you bear injuries with patience, the other tells you if you don't resent them, you are not fit to live." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-thing-of-weight-that-can-be-said-against-157793/.
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"The only thing of weight that can be said against modern honor is that it is directly opposite to religion. The one bids you bear injuries with patience, the other tells you if you don't resent them, you are not fit to live." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-thing-of-weight-that-can-be-said-against-157793/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.












