"The only thing we never get enough of is love; and the only thing we never give enough of is love"
About this Quote
The intent isn’t Hallmark uplift. It’s Miller’s familiar moral provocation, smuggled into a sentence that sounds simple enough to quote on a wall. Coming out of a writer associated with erotic candor and expatriate disillusionment, “love” here isn’t just romance. It’s bodily, reckless, unrespectable: a refusal of the cramped, transactional life modern society trains us to accept. Miller’s work often treats conventional respectability as a kind of spiritual malnutrition; this aphorism compresses that worldview into one clean paradox.
The subtext is also political in a small-p way. If love is what we chronically withhold, then the problem isn’t scarcity, it’s fear: fear of being unreturned, of losing control, of looking naive. Miller pushes against the modern pose of cool detachment. He implies that our hunger isn’t evidence that love is rare; it’s evidence that we’ve been trained to ration it.
Context matters: a 20th-century writer watching mass society, money logic, and war-era cynicism squeeze the intimate. The line works because it refuses to flatter us. It suggests the shortage is self-inflicted.
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| Topic | Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Miller, Henry. (2026, January 15). The only thing we never get enough of is love; and the only thing we never give enough of is love. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-thing-we-never-get-enough-of-is-love-and-14150/
Chicago Style
Miller, Henry. "The only thing we never get enough of is love; and the only thing we never give enough of is love." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-thing-we-never-get-enough-of-is-love-and-14150/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The only thing we never get enough of is love; and the only thing we never give enough of is love." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-thing-we-never-get-enough-of-is-love-and-14150/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.













