"The only true love is love at first sight; second sight dispels it"
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The intent feels less like heartbreak than inoculation. Zangwill, writing in a world of tightening social categories and increasingly modern courtship, knows how quickly first impressions harden into ideology. “Love at first sight” is the moment when desire can masquerade as destiny because it hasn’t yet had to negotiate habits, class signals, money, boredom, family, and the slow audit of daily character. Second sight is that audit: the return visit where the lighting is harsher and the mind is no longer cooperating with the fantasy.
The subtext is cynically tender. He’s not dismissing feeling; he’s exposing how much of early love is projection, a story we tell ourselves using another person as a screen. Calling it the “only” true love is the trapdoor: if love can’t survive a second look, maybe it was never about the other person at all. The line works because it weaponizes a romantic cliché, then forces the reader to admit how convenient the cliché is - a permission slip to confuse intensity with accuracy.
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| Topic | Love |
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Zangwill, Israel. (2026, January 15). The only true love is love at first sight; second sight dispels it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-true-love-is-love-at-first-sight-second-158497/
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Zangwill, Israel. "The only true love is love at first sight; second sight dispels it." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-true-love-is-love-at-first-sight-second-158497/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The only true love is love at first sight; second sight dispels it." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-true-love-is-love-at-first-sight-second-158497/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







