"The only way to avoid being miserable is not to have enough leisure to wonder whether you are happy or not"
About this Quote
The specific intent is to puncture the sentimental idea that happiness is a steady, measurable state you can secure through reflection. Shaw, the dramatist and professional heretic, distrusts the modern urge to treat the self as a permanent project. His subtext: “happiness” is often less an experience than a verdict, and the more time you spend seeking the verdict, the less likely you are to like it. Work, motion, purpose - even sheer busyness - can act as anesthesia. Not because work is inherently noble, but because it crowds out the corrosive question: Am I doing life correctly?
Context matters: Shaw wrote in an era when industrial capitalism was reorganizing time itself, creating new categories of leisure and a growing middle class able to indulge in introspection. His jab lands on both the overworked and the comfortable. For the exhausted, it’s grimly true; for the leisured, it’s an accusation that their freedom has become a feedback loop of self-evaluation.
The line works because it sounds like advice while operating as satire: an anti-self-help slogan that exposes how quickly “pursuing happiness” turns into a sophisticated form of dissatisfaction.
Quote Details
| Topic | Happiness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Shaw, George Bernard. (2026, January 17). The only way to avoid being miserable is not to have enough leisure to wonder whether you are happy or not. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-way-to-avoid-being-miserable-is-not-to-29178/
Chicago Style
Shaw, George Bernard. "The only way to avoid being miserable is not to have enough leisure to wonder whether you are happy or not." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-way-to-avoid-being-miserable-is-not-to-29178/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The only way to avoid being miserable is not to have enough leisure to wonder whether you are happy or not." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-way-to-avoid-being-miserable-is-not-to-29178/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





