"The only way to get under me is to get over yourself"
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The craft is in the pivot. "Under" suggests access, even submission; "over yourself" reframes the entire pursuit as an internal hurdle race. Celio uses the same verb, "get", to make desire and self-work feel like part of the same transaction. That's the subtextual flex: the speaker isn't offering a romantic challenge so much as setting terms for emotional adulthood. It's witty, but not airy. The humor is defensive, a way to say "I'm not here to manage your ego" without sounding like a therapist.
As a novelist's line, it also reads like character armor. Someone who talks like this has been pursued by people who confuse intensity with entitlement, or who treat relationships as trophies. The quote anticipates manipulation and preemptively disarms it: don't perform for me; dismantle the version of you that needs an audience. In an era of curated selves and flirtation as branding, it lands as a compact manifesto for consent, humility, and the unsexy prerequisite to being loved: self-forgetfulness.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Celio, Brian. (n.d.). The only way to get under me is to get over yourself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-way-to-get-under-me-is-to-get-over-101248/
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Celio, Brian. "The only way to get under me is to get over yourself." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-way-to-get-under-me-is-to-get-over-101248/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The only way to get under me is to get over yourself." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-way-to-get-under-me-is-to-get-over-101248/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.







