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Daily Inspiration Quote by Erich Segal

"The pain of not knowing what to do was exceeded only by that of knowing what I had done"

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Segal’s line lands because it flips the usual hierarchy of suffering. We expect uncertainty to be the torture: the paralysis of “What now?” Instead, he makes ignorance merely the opening act. The real agony arrives with clarity - not about the future, but about the past. “Not knowing what to do” is a pain rooted in helplessness; “knowing what I had done” is a pain rooted in agency. That distinction is the knife. Regret, in Segal’s framing, isn’t passive sadness. It’s the consciousness that you authored your own damage.

The sentence is engineered like a trapdoor. It starts in the abstract, almost philosophical, then pivots to confession. The second clause doesn’t specify the deed, which is precisely why it works: the reader supplies their own. Segal is writing for the interior courtroom where memory prosecutes without needing details. The comparative structure (“exceeded only by...”) also implies a grim ranking system, as if the narrator has taken inventory of pains and found the worst one is the one that comes with evidence.

Contextually, Segal’s fiction often treats romance and loss as moral weather systems: choices feel small when made, catastrophic when remembered. This line captures that delayed thunder. It also gestures toward a modern kind of guilt - not the fear of being caught, but the intolerable lucidity of self-knowledge. Uncertainty can be anesthetized by hope. Certainty about what you’ve done offers no such refuge.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Segal, Erich. (2026, January 15). The pain of not knowing what to do was exceeded only by that of knowing what I had done. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-pain-of-not-knowing-what-to-do-was-exceeded-173442/

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Segal, Erich. "The pain of not knowing what to do was exceeded only by that of knowing what I had done." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-pain-of-not-knowing-what-to-do-was-exceeded-173442/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The pain of not knowing what to do was exceeded only by that of knowing what I had done." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-pain-of-not-knowing-what-to-do-was-exceeded-173442/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.

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Erich Segal

Erich Segal (June 16, 1937 - January 17, 2010) was a Novelist from USA.

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