"The pat on the back, the arm around the shoulder, the praise for what was done right and the sympathetic nod for what wasn't are as much a part of golf as life itself"
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Golf, in Gerald R. Ford's telling, isn’t an escape from politics or pressure; it’s a small republic where character gets audited in public. The sentence moves like a foursome: gentle, sociable, quietly competitive. Ford stacks tactile gestures - pat on the back, arm around the shoulder - before he even gets to language. Touch comes first, because in his world reassurance is a form of governance. Then he pivots to a clever symmetry: praise for what went right, sympathy for what didn’t. That pairing is the whole social contract of the game, and, by extension, the whole social contract Ford wanted America to relearn after the national hangover of Watergate.
The subtext is a defense of decency as practice, not posture. Golf famously polices itself: you call your own penalties, you keep your own score, you live with the lie you got. Ford is implying that what keeps people upright isn’t constant triumph but the community’s steady calibration - affirmation when you earn it, a humane shrug when you don’t. There’s also a politician’s realism here: failure is inevitable; what matters is whether the group lets you keep playing.
As a president who sold himself as normal, steady, and morally legible, Ford uses golf as a metaphor with plausible deniability. He’s not sermonizing about unity; he’s describing the rituals that manufacture it. In an era of suspicion, that’s not small talk. It’s a governing philosophy in soft spikes.
The subtext is a defense of decency as practice, not posture. Golf famously polices itself: you call your own penalties, you keep your own score, you live with the lie you got. Ford is implying that what keeps people upright isn’t constant triumph but the community’s steady calibration - affirmation when you earn it, a humane shrug when you don’t. There’s also a politician’s realism here: failure is inevitable; what matters is whether the group lets you keep playing.
As a president who sold himself as normal, steady, and morally legible, Ford uses golf as a metaphor with plausible deniability. He’s not sermonizing about unity; he’s describing the rituals that manufacture it. In an era of suspicion, that’s not small talk. It’s a governing philosophy in soft spikes.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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