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Success Quote by Mary Wilson Little

"The penalty of success is to be bored by the attentions of people who formerly snubbed you"

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Success, Little suggests, doesn’t just elevate you; it rearranges the social furniture so aggressively that you’re stuck hosting the very people who once treated you like background noise. The line lands because it refuses the usual fairy tale payoff. Instead of triumph, you get tedium. Instead of admiration, you get attentions - a beautifully chosen word that sounds polite but feels invasive, like callers who won’t take the hint.

The specific intent is corrective. Little punctures the idea that recognition is pure reward by naming its hidden cost: social access becomes less yours to grant than others’ to demand. “Penalty” reframes achievement as a sentence you serve, not a prize you hold. That inversion carries a sharp, almost mischievous moral accounting: the snubbers aren’t transformed into genuine supporters; they’re opportunists, drawn by reflected status, proximity, and the safety of affiliating with a now-vetted winner.

The subtext is about power and memory. Success gives you leverage, but it also tests your willingness to forget. Those “formerly” snubbed moments don’t disappear; they linger as a private ledger. The boredom isn’t simple fatigue - it’s the dull ache of performative reconciliation, of being expected to smile through sudden warmth you didn’t earn but must now manage.

Contextually, coming from a late-19th/early-20th-century writer, it reads like a social survival note from a world of reputations, calling cards, and gatekept circles. In that economy, being wanted can be its own kind of trap.

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Little, Mary Wilson. (2026, January 15). The penalty of success is to be bored by the attentions of people who formerly snubbed you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-penalty-of-success-is-to-be-bored-by-the-161534/

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Little, Mary Wilson. "The penalty of success is to be bored by the attentions of people who formerly snubbed you." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-penalty-of-success-is-to-be-bored-by-the-161534/.

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"The penalty of success is to be bored by the attentions of people who formerly snubbed you." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-penalty-of-success-is-to-be-bored-by-the-161534/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Mary Wilson Little

Mary Wilson Little (December 2, 1866 - March 25, 1957) was a Writer from USA.

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