"The person whose doors I enter with most pleasure, and quit with most regret, never did me the smallest favor"
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The intent is quietly polemical. Hazlitt, a critic by trade and temperament, disliked the way favors soften honesty: once someone has helped you, gratitude becomes a leash, and candor starts to look like betrayal. By praising the friend who never "did" anything for him, he elevates a relationship that can't be redeemed for advancement, forgiveness, or leverage. Pleasure and regret mark the true emotional economy here; the absence of favors proves the presence of genuine regard.
Subtext: the most valuable companionship is the one that leaves your autonomy intact. No favors means no silent claim on your time, no expectation of ideological alignment, no backstage pressure to applaud mediocre work. It also hints at Hazlitt's own bruised experience with literary circles, where convivial rooms could hide transactional motives. The sentence performs what it argues: crisp, unsentimental, and allergic to hypocrisy, it turns a social norm inside out and dares you to notice how often "kindness" is really a down payment.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hazlitt, William. (2026, January 15). The person whose doors I enter with most pleasure, and quit with most regret, never did me the smallest favor. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-person-whose-doors-i-enter-with-most-pleasure-74668/
Chicago Style
Hazlitt, William. "The person whose doors I enter with most pleasure, and quit with most regret, never did me the smallest favor." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-person-whose-doors-i-enter-with-most-pleasure-74668/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The person whose doors I enter with most pleasure, and quit with most regret, never did me the smallest favor." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-person-whose-doors-i-enter-with-most-pleasure-74668/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






