"The poor man wishes to conceal his poverty, and the rich man his wealth: the former fears lest he be despised, the latter lest he be plundered"
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The sentence is built like a balanced scale. First comes the symmetry ("the poor man... and the rich man..."), then the asymmetry that matters: the poor hide to avoid contempt, the rich hide to avoid predation. She’s not flattening class differences; she’s showing how each class is disciplined by a different threat. For the poor, the danger is social: being read as lesser, unworthy, disposable. For the rich, the danger is material: being targeted, taxed, robbed, resented. One lives under stigma, the other under suspicion.
The subtext is colder: society makes privacy a survival strategy. Visibility is not neutral; it’s a risk calculation. Ebner-Eschenbach wrote in an Austro-Hungarian world where rank, inheritance, and public reputation were currency, and where the rise of bourgeois wealth scrambled old hierarchies. In that environment, shame and fear become parallel technologies that keep people in line, teaching them to manage appearances rather than confront the system that punishes exposure.
It works because it refuses sentimentality. There’s no romanticizing of the poor, no demonizing of the rich - just a precise diagnosis of how class produces its own kind of paranoia at both ends.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wealth |
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| Source | Marie von Ebner-Eschenbach — aphorism (English translation); cited on Wikiquote (Marie von Ebner-Eschenbach page). |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ebner-Eschenbach, Marie von. (2026, January 15). The poor man wishes to conceal his poverty, and the rich man his wealth: the former fears lest he be despised, the latter lest he be plundered. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-poor-man-wishes-to-conceal-his-poverty-and-162330/
Chicago Style
Ebner-Eschenbach, Marie von. "The poor man wishes to conceal his poverty, and the rich man his wealth: the former fears lest he be despised, the latter lest he be plundered." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-poor-man-wishes-to-conceal-his-poverty-and-162330/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The poor man wishes to conceal his poverty, and the rich man his wealth: the former fears lest he be despised, the latter lest he be plundered." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-poor-man-wishes-to-conceal-his-poverty-and-162330/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











