"The practice of patience toward one another, the overlooking of one another's defects, and the bearing of one another's burdens is the most elementary condition of all human and social activity in the family, in the professions, and in society"
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The intent is practical theology: to frame social cohesion not as a product of perfect systems but of repetitive, unglamorous virtues. “Most elementary condition” is doing a lot of work. He’s demoting charisma, brilliance, and even justice-as-scorekeeping in favor of something closer to spiritual maintenance. The subtext is a warning: without deliberate forbearance, families become tribunals, workplaces become grievance machines, and society becomes a pile of competing fragilities.
Notice the rhetoric of reciprocity: “one another” appears three times, insisting this is mutual obligation, not condescension. “Overlooking defects” is especially provocative in a culture trained to curate red flags and optimize relationships like consumer choices. Lovasik isn’t naive about defects; he’s arguing that constant moral auditing destroys the very contexts where people might actually improve.
The context is a Christian pastoral worldview that assumes people are imperfect and interdependent. “Bearing burdens” echoes Galatians 6:2, but he deliberately expands the arena beyond church life to “professions” and “society,” positioning religious virtue as civic technology. It works because it reframes tolerance as labor: not a vibe, not a hashtag, but the daily cost of keeping human life livable.
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Lovasik, Lawrence G. (2026, January 15). The practice of patience toward one another, the overlooking of one another's defects, and the bearing of one another's burdens is the most elementary condition of all human and social activity in the family, in the professions, and in society. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-practice-of-patience-toward-one-another-the-165356/
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Lovasik, Lawrence G. "The practice of patience toward one another, the overlooking of one another's defects, and the bearing of one another's burdens is the most elementary condition of all human and social activity in the family, in the professions, and in society." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-practice-of-patience-toward-one-another-the-165356/.
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"The practice of patience toward one another, the overlooking of one another's defects, and the bearing of one another's burdens is the most elementary condition of all human and social activity in the family, in the professions, and in society." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-practice-of-patience-toward-one-another-the-165356/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.











