"The press always ends up being much nicer than I expect. A lot of times they say something snarky about you, but then you meet them in person and they couldn't be nicer"
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The subtext isn’t “the press is good” so much as “the press is a role.” On the page, a writer can be sharp because the medium rewards sharpness: it’s quotable, it telegraphs intelligence, it protects the critic from seeming too invested. In person, that armor comes off, replaced by professional courtesy, maybe even genuine curiosity. Schwartz is clocking the gap between public persona and private behavior - not as hypocrisy, but as social physics. People are braver in print, kinder in proximity.
Intent-wise, it’s also a producer’s quiet assertion of control: don’t let the write-up define the relationship. Meet the human behind the byline. In an industry obsessed with image, Schwartz offers a calmer lens: criticism stings, but it’s often less personal than it looks, and the people delivering it are usually less monstrous than the headline voice suggests.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Schwartz, Josh. (2026, January 17). The press always ends up being much nicer than I expect. A lot of times they say something snarky about you, but then you meet them in person and they couldn't be nicer. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-press-always-ends-up-being-much-nicer-than-i-69541/
Chicago Style
Schwartz, Josh. "The press always ends up being much nicer than I expect. A lot of times they say something snarky about you, but then you meet them in person and they couldn't be nicer." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-press-always-ends-up-being-much-nicer-than-i-69541/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The press always ends up being much nicer than I expect. A lot of times they say something snarky about you, but then you meet them in person and they couldn't be nicer." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-press-always-ends-up-being-much-nicer-than-i-69541/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




