"The principle we call self-love never seeks anything external for the sake of the thing, but only as a means of happiness or good: particular affections rest in the external things themselves"
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The knife twist comes in the contrast: “particular affections” rest “in the external things themselves.” Butler is defending the idea that humans are built for attachments that aren’t reducible to self-interest: friendship, parental love, loyalty to a community, even aesthetic delight. Those affections don’t use the world; they regard it. That distinction lets him answer the cynics of his day (and ours) who insist every motive is ego in costume. If you can love a person as a person, not as a mood-regulating device, then moral life has real architecture, not just rationalized appetite.
Context matters: early 18th-century Britain was thick with Hobbesian suspicion and emerging market logic, both eager to interpret virtue as self-preservation with better PR. Butler, the Anglican bishop, pushes back by conceding self-love its rightful domain while refusing to let it annex the whole human heart.
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| Topic | Self-Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Butler, Joseph. (2026, January 18). The principle we call self-love never seeks anything external for the sake of the thing, but only as a means of happiness or good: particular affections rest in the external things themselves. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-principle-we-call-self-love-never-seeks-13253/
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Butler, Joseph. "The principle we call self-love never seeks anything external for the sake of the thing, but only as a means of happiness or good: particular affections rest in the external things themselves." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-principle-we-call-self-love-never-seeks-13253/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The principle we call self-love never seeks anything external for the sake of the thing, but only as a means of happiness or good: particular affections rest in the external things themselves." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-principle-we-call-self-love-never-seeks-13253/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.












