"The problem with me, as far as getting married and having a family, is that my comedy is so important to me. So I don't know if I'll ever be as good a dad as my dad"
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The subtext is a quiet fear of inheritance. By measuring himself against “my dad,” Sandler invokes a standard that’s personal, not public. Fame usually tempts celebrities into treating family as another chapter in the brand narrative. Here, he does the opposite: he treats his career as the suspect and his father as the benchmark. That reversal is disarming, and it’s culturally legible. In the late-’90s/early-2000s Sandler persona, the man-child energy is the joke; this is the moment where the joke admits it has consequences.
It also functions as preemptive honesty. He’s not asking for permission to avoid commitment; he’s voicing the moral cost of obsession before anyone else can accuse him of it. The line’s power is its modesty: no grand manifesto about art, just a plainspoken confession that greatness at one thing can quietly erode greatness at another.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sandler, Adam. (2026, January 17). The problem with me, as far as getting married and having a family, is that my comedy is so important to me. So I don't know if I'll ever be as good a dad as my dad. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-problem-with-me-as-far-as-getting-married-and-35832/
Chicago Style
Sandler, Adam. "The problem with me, as far as getting married and having a family, is that my comedy is so important to me. So I don't know if I'll ever be as good a dad as my dad." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-problem-with-me-as-far-as-getting-married-and-35832/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The problem with me, as far as getting married and having a family, is that my comedy is so important to me. So I don't know if I'll ever be as good a dad as my dad." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-problem-with-me-as-far-as-getting-married-and-35832/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.






