"The problems with First Ladies is that you have to set the standard. My role is to be both star and slave"
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Then comes the clincher: "both star and slave". It is melodramatic on purpose, the kind of phrase that lands because it captures a real contradiction of political glamour. A First Lady is expected to perform celebrity - charm, fashion, philanthropy, photo-ready empathy - while also being an instrument of her husband's legitimacy, always on call, always smiling, never fully autonomous. Marcos turns that structural bind into a personal martyr narrative, a move that both humanizes her and preemptively launders critique. If she's a "slave", any extravagance can be recast as the uniform of service, not the spoils of power.
The context makes the line sharper. Marcos wasn't merely a decorative consort; she was a political actor during a regime synonymous with corruption and spectacle. The "star" half reads like confession, the "slave" half like alibi. It's a quote designed to control the frame: don't ask what I took; ask what I had to carry.
Quote Details
| Topic | Servant Leadership |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Marcos, Imelda. (2026, January 15). The problems with First Ladies is that you have to set the standard. My role is to be both star and slave. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-problems-with-first-ladies-is-that-you-have-142804/
Chicago Style
Marcos, Imelda. "The problems with First Ladies is that you have to set the standard. My role is to be both star and slave." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-problems-with-first-ladies-is-that-you-have-142804/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The problems with First Ladies is that you have to set the standard. My role is to be both star and slave." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-problems-with-first-ladies-is-that-you-have-142804/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.




