"The question is not to know what is the meaning of life, but what meaning I can give to my life"
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The subtext is both compassionate and unsparing. If meaning is something you "give", then emptiness isn't an external condition inflicted on you by fate; it's also a sign you haven't yet practiced generosity toward your own existence. That framing dovetails with Buddhist emphasis on intention and ethical action over metaphysical certainty. It also sidesteps a trap: the search for life's meaning can become a sophisticated form of procrastination, an endless waiting room where nothing must be risked.
Context matters. As a spiritual leader speaking across cultures, the Dalai Lama translates a tradition that distrusts fixed essences into a modern self-help register without collapsing into mere positive thinking. "Give" implies relationality: meaning isn't extracted like ore, it's offered - through compassion, discipline, service, attention. The line works because it replaces paralysis with agency, while keeping humility intact. Meaning isn't discovered; it's made, daily, and often quietly.
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| Topic | Meaning of Life |
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Lama, Dalai. (2026, January 15). The question is not to know what is the meaning of life, but what meaning I can give to my life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-question-is-not-to-know-what-is-the-meaning-172816/
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Lama, Dalai. "The question is not to know what is the meaning of life, but what meaning I can give to my life." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-question-is-not-to-know-what-is-the-meaning-172816/.
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"The question is not to know what is the meaning of life, but what meaning I can give to my life." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-question-is-not-to-know-what-is-the-meaning-172816/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.











