"The rare few, who, early in life have rid themselves of the friendship of the many"
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Whistler came of age in a 19th-century art world dominated by academies, juries, and bourgeois patrons who wanted moral narratives, recognizable subjects, and flattering portraits. He made himself notorious by insisting on tone, arrangement, and mood - "art for art's sake" with a litigator's bite. His public feuds (most famously with critic John Ruskin) weren't side quests; they were part of the project of separating the artist from the moralizing public. When he praises those who dump "the many" early, he's praising a kind of strategic loneliness: better to lose the social cushion before you start needing it.
The subtext is less misanthropy than a warning about seduction. The "many" offer friendship that doubles as soft control: praise, access, commissions, acceptance. Whistler implies that real originality requires an early detox from that economy. It's a cynical line, yes, but also a practical one: if you wait too long to outgrow the crowd, the crowd becomes your style.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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"The rare few, who, early in life have rid themselves of the friendship of the many." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-rare-few-who-early-in-life-have-rid-15262/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.








