"The reality is, some people don't want you to change or go anywhere different"
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There is a quiet menace in Edmonds's phrasing: "The reality is" isn’t a throat-clearer, it’s a boundary. It frames what follows as hard-earned knowledge, the kind you arrive at after watching encouragement evaporate the moment your growth becomes inconvenient. Coming from a musician - someone whose career is literally built on reinvention, collaboration, and public reinvention - the line lands like a backstage truth: the people closest to your journey can be the first to resist its next chapter.
"Some people" is doing strategic work. It avoids naming villains while still indicting a pattern: friends who loved you as a constant, family who relied on your role, industry peers who prefer you predictable. The subtext isn’t paranoia; it’s sociology. Change rearranges hierarchies. If you "go anywhere different", you don’t just upgrade your circumstances - you challenge the comfort others built around your old self. Your ambition exposes their complacency, your healing makes their dysfunction harder to ignore, your success rewrites the story where they were the main character.
The line’s power is its plainness. No motivational gloss, no self-help uplift. Just a sobering map of resistance: not everyone opposing you will do it loudly; they’ll do it with jokes, doubts, nostalgia, or "concern". In music culture especially, where loyalty is romanticized and evolution is policed ("stay true to yourself" often meaning "stay the version I liked"), Edmonds is naming a friction many artists feel but rarely say cleanly: growth costs relationships, and sometimes the tollbooth is someone you love.
"Some people" is doing strategic work. It avoids naming villains while still indicting a pattern: friends who loved you as a constant, family who relied on your role, industry peers who prefer you predictable. The subtext isn’t paranoia; it’s sociology. Change rearranges hierarchies. If you "go anywhere different", you don’t just upgrade your circumstances - you challenge the comfort others built around your old self. Your ambition exposes their complacency, your healing makes their dysfunction harder to ignore, your success rewrites the story where they were the main character.
The line’s power is its plainness. No motivational gloss, no self-help uplift. Just a sobering map of resistance: not everyone opposing you will do it loudly; they’ll do it with jokes, doubts, nostalgia, or "concern". In music culture especially, where loyalty is romanticized and evolution is policed ("stay true to yourself" often meaning "stay the version I liked"), Edmonds is naming a friction many artists feel but rarely say cleanly: growth costs relationships, and sometimes the tollbooth is someone you love.
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