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Creativity Quote by Kirk Franklin

"The reason we struggle with insecurity is because we compare our behind-the-scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel"

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Franklin’s line lands because it translates a messy, private feeling into the simplest possible visual: backstage versus the stage. “Behind-the-scenes” isn’t just everyday boredom; it’s the unflattering footage we live in - doubt, relapse, unfinished work, the argument you replay at 2 a.m. The “highlight reel” is everyone else’s edited life, a phrase that quietly nods to sports culture and, more pointedly, social media culture: curated wins, soft lighting, selective captions, the illusion of constant momentum.

The intent is pastoral without being preachy. As a gospel musician, Franklin is writing in a tradition that takes emotional honesty seriously while still aiming for uplift. He’s not diagnosing insecurity as a personal defect; he’s reframing it as a predictable distortion created by bad data. You’re not failing at confidence, he implies, you’re making an unfair comparison between raw footage and marketing.

The subtext is a critique of performance as a social default. If everyone is incentivized to present an “after” photo, then the viewer’s “during” will always feel inadequate. Franklin also slips in a gentle call to humility: you don’t actually know other people’s costs, compromises, or chaos, because you’re not in their cutting room.

It works because it doesn’t demand that you stop caring what people think - an impossible ask. It simply asks you to compare like with like, and to remember that most lives look better when they’re edited.

Quote Details

TopicConfidence
SourceInterview with Oprah Winfrey / Oprah.com (date not specified; widely cited quote attributed to Kirk Franklin in Oprah.com features/interviews)
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Franklin, Kirk. (2026, January 30). The reason we struggle with insecurity is because we compare our behind-the-scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-reason-we-struggle-with-insecurity-is-because-184826/

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Franklin, Kirk. "The reason we struggle with insecurity is because we compare our behind-the-scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel." FixQuotes. January 30, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-reason-we-struggle-with-insecurity-is-because-184826/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The reason we struggle with insecurity is because we compare our behind-the-scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel." FixQuotes, 30 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-reason-we-struggle-with-insecurity-is-because-184826/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Kirk Franklin

Kirk Franklin (born January 26, 1970) is a Musician from USA.

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