"The records of adopted children are sealed in California. That seal is considered inviolable... The judge ruled that, because I was famous, he didn't have the same rights as other kids"
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Then she twists the knife: fame, the supposed currency that buys everything, becomes the reason she’s denied parity. The judge’s logic is both paternalistic and perverse: because she is visible, she is somehow less entitled to basic identity information. Steel is exposing a hierarchy of deservingness where the “ordinary” adoptee gets one set of rules and the public figure gets another, as if notoriety cancels personhood. The subtext is frustration with a system that treats adoptees’ curiosity as dangerous and adoptees themselves as potential liabilities.
Context matters: Steel isn’t speaking as a policy wonk; she’s a novelist used to shaping narrative, suddenly confronted with a real-life plot point she’s not allowed to read. The line lands because it turns a personal grievance into a critique of how institutions confuse privacy with erasure, and how celebrity becomes an excuse to withhold what should be universally mundane: the right to know your own story.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Steel, Danielle. (2026, January 15). The records of adopted children are sealed in California. That seal is considered inviolable... The judge ruled that, because I was famous, he didn't have the same rights as other kids. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-records-of-adopted-children-are-sealed-in-167271/
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Steel, Danielle. "The records of adopted children are sealed in California. That seal is considered inviolable... The judge ruled that, because I was famous, he didn't have the same rights as other kids." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-records-of-adopted-children-are-sealed-in-167271/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The records of adopted children are sealed in California. That seal is considered inviolable... The judge ruled that, because I was famous, he didn't have the same rights as other kids." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-records-of-adopted-children-are-sealed-in-167271/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.






