"The relationship to one's fellow man is the relationship of prayer, the relationship to oneself is the relationship of striving; it is from prayer that one draws the strength for one's striving"
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Then comes the ruthless turn: the self is not a home but a worksite. “Striving” suggests effort without finish, a moral treadmill that never quite arrives at redemption. That word carries the modern anxiety Kafka helped define: the sense that the self is a task assigned, not a given, and that failing to improve is a kind of guilt.
The kicker is his causality: strength for striving is drawn from prayer. The subtext is psychological as much as spiritual. You don’t power self-discipline purely from will; you borrow it from a relationship that makes you smaller and therefore, paradoxically, more capable of endurance. In Kafka’s world, where institutions replace God and authority is everywhere yet nowhere, “prayer” can also read as submission to something outside your own cramped ego. It’s not piety as purity; it’s piety as fuel. The bleak implication: striving alone is sterile. Without the outward act of address - to people, to God, to an imagined listener - the self collapses under its own impossible demands.
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Kafka, Franz. (2026, January 15). The relationship to one's fellow man is the relationship of prayer, the relationship to oneself is the relationship of striving; it is from prayer that one draws the strength for one's striving. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-relationship-to-ones-fellow-man-is-the-19471/
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Kafka, Franz. "The relationship to one's fellow man is the relationship of prayer, the relationship to oneself is the relationship of striving; it is from prayer that one draws the strength for one's striving." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-relationship-to-ones-fellow-man-is-the-19471/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The relationship to one's fellow man is the relationship of prayer, the relationship to oneself is the relationship of striving; it is from prayer that one draws the strength for one's striving." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-relationship-to-ones-fellow-man-is-the-19471/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.








