"The rest of the band were basically friends, So it was me following them around and begging them to let me be in their band for two or three years. And they finally let me in on the harmonica, actually, and then the keyboards, and finally the guitar"
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The phrasing does a lot of work. “Following them around and begging” is self-deprecating, almost humiliating, and that’s the point: it reverses the usual rock narrative where the virtuoso arrives fully formed and instantly indispensable. Greenwood frames himself as the kid sister at the sleepover, hovering at the edges until someone finally tosses him a role. And the roles come in a hierarchy: harmonica first (a novelty, a safe way to include you without changing the group’s center), then keyboards (utility), then guitar (identity). It’s a quiet map of how creative authority gets granted: not in one dramatic coronation, but through incremental trust.
There’s also a subtle dig at how “friends” can be both warmth and exclusion. The band’s core isn’t just musical compatibility; it’s social history, a private language. Greenwood’s story acknowledges that even in supposedly meritocratic art scenes, access matters - who’s already in the room, who gets to experiment, who has to prove they won’t disrupt the vibe.
In context, it explains a lot about Radiohead’s later dynamic: an ensemble where ego gets deflated by process, where instruments are treated as tools, and where evolution is earned through persistence rather than swagger. Greenwood isn’t selling destiny. He’s selling the long, slightly embarrassing apprenticeship that makes a “unit” real.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Greenwood, Jonny. (2026, January 15). The rest of the band were basically friends, So it was me following them around and begging them to let me be in their band for two or three years. And they finally let me in on the harmonica, actually, and then the keyboards, and finally the guitar. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-rest-of-the-band-were-basically-friends-so-it-149812/
Chicago Style
Greenwood, Jonny. "The rest of the band were basically friends, So it was me following them around and begging them to let me be in their band for two or three years. And they finally let me in on the harmonica, actually, and then the keyboards, and finally the guitar." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-rest-of-the-band-were-basically-friends-so-it-149812/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The rest of the band were basically friends, So it was me following them around and begging them to let me be in their band for two or three years. And they finally let me in on the harmonica, actually, and then the keyboards, and finally the guitar." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-rest-of-the-band-were-basically-friends-so-it-149812/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.


