"The river is constantly turning and bending and you never know where it's going to go and where you'll wind up. Following the bend in the river and staying on your own path means that you are on the right track. Don't let anyone deter you from that"
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Her phrasing does a clever double move: she admits you “never know where it’s going to go,” then insists that “staying on your own path” is “the right track.” That tension is the subtext. Certainty doesn’t come from outcomes; it comes from authorship. Kitt is arguing for an internal compass when the external world is volatile, fickle, and often punitive toward people who won’t perform gratitude or compliance.
“Don’t let anyone deter you” lands harder in her mouth because “anyone” was not hypothetical. Kitt was famously blacklisted after criticizing U.S. policy at a White House luncheon in 1968, a moment that cost her bookings and forced her to rebuild abroad. In that context, the quote reads less like motivational wallpaper and more like post-traumatic clarity: the bends will come; the pressure will come; the only real mistake is letting other people rename your direction as deviation.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kitt, Eartha. (n.d.). The river is constantly turning and bending and you never know where it's going to go and where you'll wind up. Following the bend in the river and staying on your own path means that you are on the right track. Don't let anyone deter you from that. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-river-is-constantly-turning-and-bending-and-53983/
Chicago Style
Kitt, Eartha. "The river is constantly turning and bending and you never know where it's going to go and where you'll wind up. Following the bend in the river and staying on your own path means that you are on the right track. Don't let anyone deter you from that." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-river-is-constantly-turning-and-bending-and-53983/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The river is constantly turning and bending and you never know where it's going to go and where you'll wind up. Following the bend in the river and staying on your own path means that you are on the right track. Don't let anyone deter you from that." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-river-is-constantly-turning-and-bending-and-53983/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.







