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"The secret of how to live without resentment or embarrassment in a world in which I was different from everyone else. was to be indifferent to that difference"

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Capp frames “difference” as a social trap: the world marks you, then dares you to react. The line’s sly power is that it refuses the expected script. If you’re “different from everyone else,” you’re typically offered two cages: resentment (the righteous, exhausting tally of slights) or embarrassment (the inward collapse, the preemptive apology for existing). Capp’s “secret” is a third move that’s almost comic in its bluntness: don’t play.

The phrasing is doing quiet work. “Secret” sounds like self-help, but the lesson is anti-performative. He’s not promising belonging; he’s proposing immunity. “Indifferent to that difference” isn’t denial of reality so much as refusal to let identity become a running commentary track. In a culture that weaponizes otherness by demanding either defiance or shame, indifference is a kind of misdirection: you take away the audience’s favorite prop.

Context matters. Capp was a master of American satire, steeped in the mid-century machinery of conformity and its counterpart, the spectacle of the outsider. Comics thrive on types, labels, and the punchline that arrives when someone reacts exactly as expected. Capp’s advice is, essentially: don’t be the punchline. The subtext is both liberating and hard-edged: society’s judgment has power largely when you help narrate it. Indifference becomes a survival tactic, a way to live without constantly negotiating your right to occupy the room. It’s not warmth; it’s leverage.

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Capp, Al. (2026, January 15). The secret of how to live without resentment or embarrassment in a world in which I was different from everyone else. was to be indifferent to that difference. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-secret-of-how-to-live-without-resentment-or-144682/

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Capp, Al. "The secret of how to live without resentment or embarrassment in a world in which I was different from everyone else. was to be indifferent to that difference." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-secret-of-how-to-live-without-resentment-or-144682/.

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"The secret of how to live without resentment or embarrassment in a world in which I was different from everyone else. was to be indifferent to that difference." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-secret-of-how-to-live-without-resentment-or-144682/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.

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Al Capp

Al Capp (September 28, 1909 - November 5, 1979) was a Cartoonist from USA.

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