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Daily Inspiration Quote by Roberto Bolano

"The secret story is the one we'll never know, although we're living it from day to day, thinking we're alive, thinking we've got it all under control and the stuff we overlook doesn't matter"

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Bolano’s sentence reads like a live-wire rebuke to the modern fantasy of self-narration: that if we keep good records, make the right choices, curate the right identity, our life will add up to a coherent plot. He calls that confidence what it often is in his fiction - a kind of improvisational blindness. The “secret story” isn’t a hidden conspiracy waiting to be uncovered; it’s the story produced by everything we misfile as background noise: the stray conversation, the compromised friendship, the political weather, the unnoticed harm, the cheap luck. It’s not that we lack information. It’s that we misjudge relevance.

The repetition - “thinking we’re alive, thinking we’ve got it all under control” - is a deliberately flat drumbeat, exposing how consciousness can be mere self-administration. Bolano’s bite is in the insinuation that “being alive” is not the same as feeling busy or in charge. Control becomes a pose, a coping mechanism, the voice you use to keep dread at bay.

Context matters: Bolano wrote out of exile, dictatorship’s aftermath, and literary subcultures where people disappear, literally and socially, while others keep going, telling themselves the overlooked “doesn’t matter.” His novels are crowded with investigators and poets chasing meaning, only to find that the decisive forces are offstage, dispersed, or already gone. The line functions as a moral warning and an aesthetic manifesto: reality’s main plot is always happening in the margins, and the person most likely to miss it is the person convinced they’re steering.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bolano, Roberto. (2026, January 15). The secret story is the one we'll never know, although we're living it from day to day, thinking we're alive, thinking we've got it all under control and the stuff we overlook doesn't matter. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-secret-story-is-the-one-well-never-know-163045/

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Bolano, Roberto. "The secret story is the one we'll never know, although we're living it from day to day, thinking we're alive, thinking we've got it all under control and the stuff we overlook doesn't matter." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-secret-story-is-the-one-well-never-know-163045/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The secret story is the one we'll never know, although we're living it from day to day, thinking we're alive, thinking we've got it all under control and the stuff we overlook doesn't matter." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-secret-story-is-the-one-well-never-know-163045/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Roberto Bolano

Roberto Bolano (April 28, 1953 - July 15, 2003) was a Novelist from Chile.

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