"The sexes were made for each other, and only in the wise and loving union of the two is the fullness of health and duty and happiness to be expected"
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The triad is telling. “Health” borrows the authority of medicine and nature, smuggling morality into biology. “Duty” evokes discipline, hierarchy, and service - the kind of vocabulary that makes sense from a 19th-century soldier whose world prizes order and sanctioned roles. “Happiness” arrives last, less as private pleasure than as proof that the system works. You can almost see the Victorian bargain: submit to the “wise and loving union,” and society will grant you wellness, purpose, and contentment.
“Wise and loving” functions as a moral alibi. It suggests this isn’t crude matchmaking or mere reproduction; it’s elevated, ethical, properly governed. Yet the subtext is exclusionary: it sidelines same-sex desire, celibacy, non-marital partnership, and any gender nonconformity by defining them as incomplete or risky, deviations from “fullness.”
In context, this reads like an era’s confidence speaking through a personal ethic: marriage as social infrastructure, sexuality as a civic question. Hall’s certainty isn’t just about romance; it’s about stabilizing a world where the family is treated as the smallest unit of national strength.
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| Topic | Marriage |
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Hall, William. (n.d.). The sexes were made for each other, and only in the wise and loving union of the two is the fullness of health and duty and happiness to be expected. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-sexes-were-made-for-each-other-and-only-in-148309/
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Hall, William. "The sexes were made for each other, and only in the wise and loving union of the two is the fullness of health and duty and happiness to be expected." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-sexes-were-made-for-each-other-and-only-in-148309/.
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"The sexes were made for each other, and only in the wise and loving union of the two is the fullness of health and duty and happiness to be expected." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-sexes-were-made-for-each-other-and-only-in-148309/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.








