"The sharpest memory of our old-fashioned Christmas Eve is my mother's hand making sure I was settled in bed"
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The phrase “old-fashioned Christmas eve” flirts with sentimentality, then undercuts it. “Old-fashioned” signals tradition and a vanished social world, but the detail he chooses is almost aggressively private, a domestic micro-scene that could exist in any era. That’s the subtext: what we mourn in “simpler times” isn’t really the aesthetics; it’s the feeling of being looked after without having to ask.
Engle’s intent feels less like commemorating a holiday than isolating the mechanism of memory itself. Christmas Eve is culturally overlit, crowded with rituals and expectations, yet his mind keeps the dim hallway moment - the last check-in before the long night, the small choreography of care. The mother’s hand functions like a quiet seal on childhood: protection offered freely, received half-asleep, recognized fully only in retrospect. In a season built around spectacle, Engle insists the real miracle is attention.
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Engle, Paul. (2026, February 18). The sharpest memory of our old-fashioned Christmas Eve is my mother's hand making sure I was settled in bed. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-sharpest-memory-of-our-old-fashioned-86817/
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Engle, Paul. "The sharpest memory of our old-fashioned Christmas Eve is my mother's hand making sure I was settled in bed." FixQuotes. February 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-sharpest-memory-of-our-old-fashioned-86817/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The sharpest memory of our old-fashioned Christmas Eve is my mother's hand making sure I was settled in bed." FixQuotes, 18 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-sharpest-memory-of-our-old-fashioned-86817/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.




