"The sick soon come to understand that they live in a different world from that of the well and that the two cannot communicate"
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The subtext is an indictment of the "well" as much as a lament for the sick. West doesn't say the two choose not to communicate; she says they can't. That lands like a critique of empathy's limits, and of a culture that treats health as the default setting and sickness as a temporary glitch. When you're ill, you learn how quickly conversations get rerouted into pep talks, productivity advice, or moral fables about resilience. The well want narratives that restore order. The sick live inside uncertainty and constraint.
Context matters: West wrote in a 20th-century America where chronic illness and disability were commonly privatized, euphemized, or folded into stoic domesticity. Her sentence refuses that tidiness. It's not sentimental; it's diagnostic. The power comes from how she makes miscommunication structural, not personal - a gulf built into how "normal life" is designed, and who it expects to be speaking.
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| Topic | Health |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
West, Jessamyn. (2026, January 18). The sick soon come to understand that they live in a different world from that of the well and that the two cannot communicate. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-sick-soon-come-to-understand-that-they-live-7669/
Chicago Style
West, Jessamyn. "The sick soon come to understand that they live in a different world from that of the well and that the two cannot communicate." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-sick-soon-come-to-understand-that-they-live-7669/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The sick soon come to understand that they live in a different world from that of the well and that the two cannot communicate." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-sick-soon-come-to-understand-that-they-live-7669/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.












