"The simple practice of hesitation helps you stop reacting blindly to everything that happens"
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The intent is practical, almost behavioral. “Simple practice” makes it accessible, less spiritual grandstanding than a repeatable habit: insert a beat between stimulus and response. That beat is where agency lives. “Reacting blindly” is the tell; she’s not condemning emotion, she’s warning about automation. Blind reaction is what keeps conflicts looping, what turns anxiety into compulsion, what makes relationships feel like a series of triggered defenses rather than chosen words.
As a teacher, Ma Jaya’s subtext is pedagogical: you don’t fix reactivity by lecturing yourself into calm; you train it the way you train a muscle. Hesitation becomes a micro-meditation you can deploy in traffic, at work, in a fight with someone you love. The context reads as late-20th-century spiritual pragmatism meeting modern attention economics: a small, portable counterspell against the speed of life. Not passivity, not indecision, but a deliberate interrupt that lets you stop being hijacked and start responding on purpose.
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Jaya, Ma. (2026, January 11). The simple practice of hesitation helps you stop reacting blindly to everything that happens. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-simple-practice-of-hesitation-helps-you-stop-183895/
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"The simple practice of hesitation helps you stop reacting blindly to everything that happens." FixQuotes, 11 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-simple-practice-of-hesitation-helps-you-stop-183895/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








