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Daily Inspiration Quote by Jasmine Guy

"The state and the church seldom approve of anything I do. I don't need their approval. I don't aspire to the heterosexual nuclear family model"

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Refusal is the engine of Jasmine Guy's line: not a plea for tolerance, but a calm rejection of the institutions that presume the right to grade her life. By pairing "the state" with "the church", she names two old authorities that have historically collaborated to define morality, police sexuality, and reward conformity with legitimacy. The punch is in "seldom approve" - she’s not claiming persecution as drama, she’s describing a predictable pattern. And then she shrugs it off.

"I don't need their approval" lands like a boundary, not a manifesto. The subtext is about power: approval is currency, and she’s opting out of that economy. For a working actress, that choice carries particular bite. Hollywood sells rebellion, but it still runs on respectability politics - awards-season optics, brand-safe personal narratives, the public-relations version of adulthood. Guy’s phrasing treats institutional validation as optional, even slightly embarrassing to seek.

The final sentence clarifies what the approval is often contingent on: aspiring to the heterosexual nuclear family model, the default script that gets framed as stability, patriotism, and "values". She doesn’t argue against family; she rejects the compulsory version of it, the one that turns identity into a checkbox and intimacy into a social contract.

Context matters: Guy came up in an era when Black women in entertainment were routinely tasked with projecting "wholesome" relatability while being denied privacy and complexity. Her statement is a small, sharp act of narrative ownership: you don’t get to define my life, and you don’t get to make your definition the prize.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Guy, Jasmine. (2026, January 17). The state and the church seldom approve of anything I do. I don't need their approval. I don't aspire to the heterosexual nuclear family model. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-state-and-the-church-seldom-approve-of-63570/

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Guy, Jasmine. "The state and the church seldom approve of anything I do. I don't need their approval. I don't aspire to the heterosexual nuclear family model." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-state-and-the-church-seldom-approve-of-63570/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The state and the church seldom approve of anything I do. I don't need their approval. I don't aspire to the heterosexual nuclear family model." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-state-and-the-church-seldom-approve-of-63570/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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Jasmine Guy (born March 10, 1964) is a Actress from USA.

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