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Love Quote by Douglas William Jerrold

"The surest way to hit a woman's heart is to take aim kneeling"

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A Victorian punchline dressed up as gallantry, Jerrold’s line lands because it smuggles a sexual power play into the polite choreography of romance. “Take aim” turns courtship into marksmanship, then instantly undercuts the macho posture with “kneeling,” the classic pose of proposal, apology, and religious supplication. The joke is that the “surest way” to reach her “heart” is not force but surrender - or at least the performance of it.

Jerrold, a dramatist and satirist of middle-class manners, is working the seam between sentiment and theater. Kneeling is less an emotion than a stage direction: a gesture that signals seriousness, humility, and social correctness, legible from the back row. In a culture obsessed with decorum, the body becomes rhetoric. The line flatters women by implying they hold the target (the “heart”) and the terms of access, yet it also reduces that heart to something you can reliably “hit” if you use the right technique. Romance is framed as strategy.

The subtext is transactional: masculine desire is rebranded as reverence to make it socially acceptable. It’s also quietly cynical about sincerity. If kneeling is the surest route, love becomes less mystery than method - an instruction manual for men navigating a world where female consent, reputation, and marriage prospects were entangled with public performance. Jerrold’s wit bites because it exposes how often “devotion” is just good blocking.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jerrold, Douglas William. (2026, January 17). The surest way to hit a woman's heart is to take aim kneeling. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-surest-way-to-hit-a-womans-heart-is-to-take-27741/

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Jerrold, Douglas William. "The surest way to hit a woman's heart is to take aim kneeling." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-surest-way-to-hit-a-womans-heart-is-to-take-27741/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The surest way to hit a woman's heart is to take aim kneeling." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-surest-way-to-hit-a-womans-heart-is-to-take-27741/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Douglas William Jerrold

Douglas William Jerrold (January 3, 1803 - June 8, 1857) was a Dramatist from England.

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