"The teams who play against us don't give us any gifts, but we were too kind"
About this Quote
The twist is that “kindness” here isn’t moral virtue; it’s a failure of discipline. Laurent implies an almost tactile problem: you didn’t press hard enough. You left too much in the material. Sculptors know that what remains is as deliberate as what’s removed; you can ruin a form by refusing the decisive cut. That’s the subtext hiding under the sportsy surface: restraint can be cowardice dressed up as ethics, and “niceness” can be a way to avoid conflict, judgment, or risk.
Contextually, it lands in that modern discomfort with competition. We want to be seen as humane even while pursuing outcomes that demand sharp elbows. Laurent punctures the fantasy that goodwill will be reciprocated. He’s not praising cruelty; he’s insisting on boundaries. Don’t expect mercy, and don’t confuse politeness with strength.
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| Topic | Defeat |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Laurent, Robert. (2026, January 15). The teams who play against us don't give us any gifts, but we were too kind. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-teams-who-play-against-us-dont-give-us-any-169679/
Chicago Style
Laurent, Robert. "The teams who play against us don't give us any gifts, but we were too kind." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-teams-who-play-against-us-dont-give-us-any-169679/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The teams who play against us don't give us any gifts, but we were too kind." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-teams-who-play-against-us-dont-give-us-any-169679/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.








