"The tennis wasn't really very much on my mind, so it wasn't like I was thinking about it all the time"
About this Quote
The intent reads as boundary-setting. Graf isn’t denying commitment; she’s rejecting obsession as the only legitimate fuel for excellence. That matters because her public image was famously contained: private, efficient, almost machine-like in her prime. This quote subtly corrects that projection. The subtext is that discipline can be procedural rather than consuming: you show up, you train, you compete, and then your mind gets to be your own.
Contextually, it pushes back against a culture that romanticizes total sacrifice - especially for women athletes, who get policed either way: too intense and they’re “cold,” too balanced and they’re “not hungry enough.” Graf’s phrasing sidesteps both traps. It also hints at a coping strategy for a sport built on isolation and momentum swings. Not thinking about tennis “all the time” can be psychological self-defense: a way to keep losses from metastasizing, to prevent winning from turning into a fragile identity.
The quiet power here is its unglamorous truth: greatness doesn’t always come from constant fixation. Sometimes it comes from knowing when to let the game go.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Graf, Steffi. (2026, January 15). The tennis wasn't really very much on my mind, so it wasn't like I was thinking about it all the time. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-tennis-wasnt-really-very-much-on-my-mind-so-159711/
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Graf, Steffi. "The tennis wasn't really very much on my mind, so it wasn't like I was thinking about it all the time." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-tennis-wasnt-really-very-much-on-my-mind-so-159711/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The tennis wasn't really very much on my mind, so it wasn't like I was thinking about it all the time." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-tennis-wasnt-really-very-much-on-my-mind-so-159711/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





