"The test of one's behavior pattern is their relationship to society, relationship to work and relationship to sex"
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The intent is diagnostic. Adler’s psychology was built against the era’s fascination with hidden drives and aristocratic isolation of the individual psyche. He insisted on social embeddedness: “social interest” as mental health’s backbone. So the subtext is a rebuke to self-absorption. If your relationships are exploitative, your work is evasive, or your sexuality is coercive or avoidant, Adler implies you’re not merely “complicated” - you’re maladapted to the basic tasks of living with others.
The triad is also a map of vulnerability. Society tests empathy and belonging; work tests responsibility and usefulness; sex tests equality, tenderness, power. Adler chooses sex not for scandal but because intimacy is where people drop their public scripts, and where domination, fear, and insecurity tend to surface. In early 20th-century Vienna, that was a pointed move: sex wasn’t just personal; it was moral panic, gender politics, and family structure all at once.
What makes the line work is its cold efficiency. Three arenas, nowhere to hide. It’s a theory of character that demands receipts.
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"The test of one's behavior pattern is their relationship to society, relationship to work and relationship to sex." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-test-of-ones-behavior-pattern-is-their-24297/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.









