"The thing I hate most in acting is asking permission to do things. What you really want to do is say, 'This is my need; this is what's going to get me further; this is what's going to be alive. I don't ever say, "Do you mind if...?' I just come in and do it'"
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The quote works because it treats acting less like service work and more like a survival behavior. "Need" is a loaded word here. He isn`t talking about preference or an idea he wants to try; he`s talking about an internal necessity that has to be honored on the spot or it dies. When he says, "what`s going to be alive", he`s naming the real enemy: dead choices, safe choices, choices engineered to avoid conflict. The refusal to ask "Do you mind if...?" is a rejection of performative humility, the kind that signals you`re easy to manage even if it makes the work smaller.
There`s also a strategic reading: this is a veteran character actor describing how you claim space in an industry built on hierarchy. If you`re not the star, you`re often expected to be grateful, contained, grateful again. Henriksen flips that. He suggests a kind of guerrilla authorship: you don`t debate your way into a moment; you stage it. It`s a credo for actors who know that permission can be another word for surrender, and that the only convincing authority on screen is the kind you assume.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Henriksen, Lance. (2026, February 16). The thing I hate most in acting is asking permission to do things. What you really want to do is say, 'This is my need; this is what's going to get me further; this is what's going to be alive. I don't ever say, "Do you mind if...?' I just come in and do it'. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-thing-i-hate-most-in-acting-is-asking-128062/
Chicago Style
Henriksen, Lance. "The thing I hate most in acting is asking permission to do things. What you really want to do is say, 'This is my need; this is what's going to get me further; this is what's going to be alive. I don't ever say, "Do you mind if...?' I just come in and do it'." FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-thing-i-hate-most-in-acting-is-asking-128062/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The thing I hate most in acting is asking permission to do things. What you really want to do is say, 'This is my need; this is what's going to get me further; this is what's going to be alive. I don't ever say, "Do you mind if...?' I just come in and do it'." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-thing-i-hate-most-in-acting-is-asking-128062/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.






