"The thing I was attracted to as a little girl was Kirk, Bones and Spock, and their utter loyalty. There's nothing more powerful than that"
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The subtext is quietly corrective. Star Trek’s trio models masculinity without the usual scarcity mindset: Kirk’s swagger doesn’t require humiliating his friends, McCoy’s emotion doesn’t disqualify him from authority, Spock’s logic isn’t treated as coldness so much as another language of care. Their bickering functions like proof of intimacy. You can disagree and still be safe. That’s a radical fantasy for anyone raised around conditional affection or zero-sum hierarchies.
Her phrasing, “utter loyalty,” matters: not loyalty to institutions, flags, or abstract missions, but to each other. In an era when “loyalty” is often code for obedience - in workplaces, politics, even online fandoms - Blalock points to a sturdier version: loyalty as steadfastness under stress, the kind that lets people be fully themselves without fear of exile.
Contextually, it’s also an actor from the Trek ecosystem staking a claim about what the franchise sells at its best: not tech, not aliens, not optimism as branding, but the emotional infrastructure that makes optimism plausible. That’s why it’s “powerful”: it’s the engine, not the decoration.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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Blalock, Jolene. (2026, January 15). The thing I was attracted to as a little girl was Kirk, Bones and Spock, and their utter loyalty. There's nothing more powerful than that. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-thing-i-was-attracted-to-as-a-little-girl-was-162157/
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Blalock, Jolene. "The thing I was attracted to as a little girl was Kirk, Bones and Spock, and their utter loyalty. There's nothing more powerful than that." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-thing-i-was-attracted-to-as-a-little-girl-was-162157/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The thing I was attracted to as a little girl was Kirk, Bones and Spock, and their utter loyalty. There's nothing more powerful than that." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-thing-i-was-attracted-to-as-a-little-girl-was-162157/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.

