"The thing is, is to raise your hand. It's not to hide, and it's not to try and pretend or do anything like that. You raise your hand, that's the best thing about it"
About this Quote
The phrase “The thing is, is” is doing quiet work here. It’s not polished, not quotable in a Hallmark way, and that’s exactly why it reads as lived-in. Minnelli isn’t delivering a maxim; she’s talking like someone who’s been in rooms where hiding feels safer and where pretending is the default survival strategy. The repetition and the corrective cadence (“It’s not to hide...”) suggest she’s pushing back against a reflex she knows intimately: shame, denial, the performance of having it together.
Context matters because Minnelli’s public life has always been tangled with visibility: famous parents, a career built on maximal presence, and a personal history that tabloids treated as public property. “Raise your hand” becomes more than an acting note; it’s an ethic of participation. Claim your part in the story, even if the story is messy. In recovery culture, in audition culture, in any room where you’re tempted to disappear, raising your hand is a small, defiant bid for agency: I’m here. I’m not pretending. I’m in.
Quote Details
| Topic | Confidence |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Minnelli, Liza. (2026, January 15). The thing is, is to raise your hand. It's not to hide, and it's not to try and pretend or do anything like that. You raise your hand, that's the best thing about it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-thing-is-is-to-raise-your-hand-its-not-to-164176/
Chicago Style
Minnelli, Liza. "The thing is, is to raise your hand. It's not to hide, and it's not to try and pretend or do anything like that. You raise your hand, that's the best thing about it." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-thing-is-is-to-raise-your-hand-its-not-to-164176/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The thing is, is to raise your hand. It's not to hide, and it's not to try and pretend or do anything like that. You raise your hand, that's the best thing about it." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-thing-is-is-to-raise-your-hand-its-not-to-164176/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.






