"The thing that's important to know is that you never know. You're always sort of feeling your way"
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The subtext is ethical as much as aesthetic. Arbus photographed people who were routinely turned into spectacle: carnival performers, outsiders, the socially "unplaceable". To approach them as if you already understand what their lives mean would be another kind of violence, a pre-packaged narrative imposed from above. "Feeling your way" suggests touch rather than capture, proximity rather than conquest. It admits the awkwardness of looking and being looked back at, the fact that the camera isn't neutral and the photographer isn't innocent.
Context matters: mid-century American photography was splitting between humanist documentary and glossy commercial confidence. Arbus, coming out of fashion work, moves toward images that refuse to reassure. Her pictures often feel composed yet unsettled, intimate yet slightly alien. This line is the philosophy behind that tension: the best work isn't an answer, it's a controlled stumble toward contact. The photographer's job, she implies, isn't to declare the truth of a subject but to stay alert to what resists being known.
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