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"The thing women have yet to learn is nobody gives you power. You just take it"

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Nobody hands you authority with a ribbon on it; Barr’s line spits in the face of that fantasy and dares you to notice how often women are trained to wait for permission. The sentence is built like a shove: “The thing women have yet to learn” sets up a blunt, almost parental reprimand, then “nobody gives you power” strips away the comforting myth of benevolent gatekeepers. The punch lands in the final clause, five hard words that read like a stunt move: “You just take it.” Not ask. Not earn. Take.

The intent is motivational, but the subtext is darker: power is not a prize awarded for virtue; it’s a contested resource protected by people who already have it. Barr’s comedy background matters here. Sitcoms and stand-up are both arenas where women get policed for being “too much” - too loud, too angry, too unapologetic. “Take it” is an instruction to embrace the very traits that get penalized. It’s also a reminder that likability is often the tax women are expected to pay for influence.

Context complicates it. Barr is a polarizing figure whose career illustrates both the payoff and the cost of grabbing the mic: she built an empire by refusing softness, then became a cautionary tale about how quickly institutions withdraw platforms when you become inconvenient. That tension is why the quote works. It’s not polite empowerment; it’s a backstage truth about leverage. Power isn’t bestowed by fairness. It’s seized, defended, and, if you’re not careful, used in ways that burn the hand that grabbed it.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Barr, Roseanne. (n.d.). The thing women have yet to learn is nobody gives you power. You just take it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-thing-women-have-yet-to-learn-is-nobody-gives-77808/

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Barr, Roseanne. "The thing women have yet to learn is nobody gives you power. You just take it." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-thing-women-have-yet-to-learn-is-nobody-gives-77808/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The thing women have yet to learn is nobody gives you power. You just take it." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-thing-women-have-yet-to-learn-is-nobody-gives-77808/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Roseanne Barr (born November 3, 1952) is a Actress from USA.

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