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Time & Perspective Quote by Charley Pride

"The time I spent thinking about how I was better than somebody else or worrying about somebody else's attitude was time I could put to better use"

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Pride cuts through ego with the kind of plainspoken clarity you hear from someone who’s had to earn every inch of legitimacy. The line is built on a quiet pivot: “thinking about how I was better” sits right next to “worrying about somebody else’s attitude,” as if superiority and insecurity are twins. That’s the trick. He’s not just condemning arrogance; he’s exposing how easily it becomes a time-wasting coping mechanism, a way to feel in control when the world is busy judging you.

The intent is pragmatic, almost athletic in its discipline: attention is a limited resource, and you win by allocating it. Pride’s phrasing turns self-righteous comparison and social paranoia into the same bad habit - mental junk miles that exhaust you without moving you forward. “Time I could put to better use” lands like a coach’s stopwatch: no melodrama, just accountability.

The subtext is especially pointed given Pride’s career arc as a Black star in a genre and industry that didn’t always make room. In that environment, other people’s “attitude” isn’t abstract; it can mean gatekeeping, condescension, and the daily stress test of being underestimated. Pride’s refusal to fixate isn’t naive optimism. It’s strategy. He’s describing a way to protect ambition from the narcotic pull of resentment - and to keep your identity from being defined by the people who’d rather you stay distracted.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Pride, Charley. (2026, January 17). The time I spent thinking about how I was better than somebody else or worrying about somebody else's attitude was time I could put to better use. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-time-i-spent-thinking-about-how-i-was-better-52010/

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Pride, Charley. "The time I spent thinking about how I was better than somebody else or worrying about somebody else's attitude was time I could put to better use." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-time-i-spent-thinking-about-how-i-was-better-52010/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The time I spent thinking about how I was better than somebody else or worrying about somebody else's attitude was time I could put to better use." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-time-i-spent-thinking-about-how-i-was-better-52010/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.

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Charley Pride (March 18, 1938 - December 12, 2020) was a Athlete from USA.

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