"The touring part is really mixed. You love to play and you can't wait to go, but you don't want to leave"
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The intent is to puncture the fantasy without sounding bitter. Bettencourt isn't complaining about airplanes and hotel rooms. He's naming the emotional tax: the cost of being a professional at the thing that makes you feel most alive. In the subtext, "leave" isn't just a house; it's a whole set of anchors - relationships, routine, privacy, a body that wants recovery, a mind that wants stillness. The road turns life into a series of goodbyes that never quite become normal, no matter how many years you log.
Context matters: Bettencourt comes out of an era when touring became the industry's economic backbone, especially as recorded music revenue shrank and live performance turned into the main paycheck and main proof of relevance. So the "mixed" feeling isn't a personal quirk. It's the modern musician's permanent compromise: the gig that feeds you is also the gig that takes you away from what you're trying to build when you're not onstage.
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Bettencourt, Nuno. (2026, January 16). The touring part is really mixed. You love to play and you can't wait to go, but you don't want to leave. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-touring-part-is-really-mixed-you-love-to-play-134263/
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Bettencourt, Nuno. "The touring part is really mixed. You love to play and you can't wait to go, but you don't want to leave." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-touring-part-is-really-mixed-you-love-to-play-134263/.
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"The touring part is really mixed. You love to play and you can't wait to go, but you don't want to leave." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-touring-part-is-really-mixed-you-love-to-play-134263/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.



