"The tragedy of life is in what dies inside a man while he lives - the death of genuine feeling, the death of inspired response, the awareness that makes it possible to feel the pain or the glory of other men in yourself"
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The subtext is moral and civic. "Awareness" here isn’t mindfulness as lifestyle upgrade; it’s the prerequisite for empathy, solidarity, even democracy. If you can’t feel "the pain or the glory of other men in yourself", you can still function, even succeed, but you’ll do it as a sealed unit, insulated from consequence. Cousins implies that society quietly rewards this insulation: professionalism, productivity, coolness under pressure. The cost is a flattened inner life that can’t be moved by art, grief, injustice, or joy.
Context matters: Cousins wrote in a 20th-century landscape shaped by mass violence, mass media, and mass institutions - environments that train people to cope by detaching. His phrasing has the cadence of a sermon, but the target is modernity’s most respectable vice: the gradual surrender of sensitivity. The warning lands because it refuses melodrama; it names the slow, invisible way a person can survive everything and still lose the point of being alive.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cousins, Norman. (2026, January 16). The tragedy of life is in what dies inside a man while he lives - the death of genuine feeling, the death of inspired response, the awareness that makes it possible to feel the pain or the glory of other men in yourself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-tragedy-of-life-is-in-what-dies-inside-a-man-92816/
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Cousins, Norman. "The tragedy of life is in what dies inside a man while he lives - the death of genuine feeling, the death of inspired response, the awareness that makes it possible to feel the pain or the glory of other men in yourself." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-tragedy-of-life-is-in-what-dies-inside-a-man-92816/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The tragedy of life is in what dies inside a man while he lives - the death of genuine feeling, the death of inspired response, the awareness that makes it possible to feel the pain or the glory of other men in yourself." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-tragedy-of-life-is-in-what-dies-inside-a-man-92816/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









