"The trouble with talking too fast is you may say something you haven't thought of yet"
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Her intent is practical, almost domestic: slow down, give your judgment time to arrive. But the subtext is about self-control as social survival. In Landers’ advice-column universe, relationships rupture less from grand betrayals than from small, impulsive sentences that can’t be retracted. Speed becomes a moral hazard: not just a communication flaw, but a failure of care. Talking fast signals anxiety, ego, or the need to manage the room - all states where empathy gets crowded out.
The context matters. As a journalist dispensing mass counsel in mid-to-late 20th-century America, Landers was translating private mess into public etiquette. Her line anticipates the modern attention economy, where the quickest response wins and the screenshot lasts forever. It’s an old-school rule with new-world stakes: you can’t edit what you’ve already published out loud.
Quote Details
| Topic | Witty One-Liners |
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| Source | Later attribution: The Complete Idiot's Guide to the Law of Attraction (Diane Ahlquist, 2008) modern compilationISBN: 9781101460818 · ID: l7vx24pd3r8C
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... The trouble with talking too fast is you may say something you haven't thought of yet . -Ann Landers , advice columnist you're cracking up is far different than yelling the same thing to some- one who's just stepped on your lawn ... |
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Landers, Ann. (2026, March 6). The trouble with talking too fast is you may say something you haven't thought of yet. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-trouble-with-talking-too-fast-is-you-may-say-3885/
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"The trouble with talking too fast is you may say something you haven't thought of yet." FixQuotes, 6 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-trouble-with-talking-too-fast-is-you-may-say-3885/. Accessed 6 Mar. 2026.









