"The trouble with wedlock is that there's not enough wed and too much lock"
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The intent isn’t to sneer at commitment so much as to puncture the sentimental marketing around it. Morley’s wit is conversational, not cruel: he’s aiming at the social script that treats marriage as an unquestioned upgrade, a moral credential, a solution. The subtext is that wedlock can become an arrangement where the ceremony is brief and the constraints are long-term: habits calcify, roles harden, desire becomes scheduled, and the couple’s private life gets policed by expectations about respectability, gender, and permanence.
Context matters. Writing in early 20th-century America, Morley lived in an era when divorce was stigmatized, women’s autonomy was constrained, and marriage functioned as a primary economic and social safety net. That’s what gives the pun its bite: the "lock" isn’t just emotional claustrophobia; it’s a legal and cultural mechanism. The line’s staying power comes from how lightly it lands while quietly indicting an institution that often confuses stability with captivity.
Quote Details
| Topic | Witty One-Liners |
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| Source | Later attribution: Reconcilable Differences (Andrew Christensen, Neil S. Jacobson, 1999) modern compilationISBN: 9781606238301 · ID: als_dnWQya0C
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Morley, Christopher. (2026, March 15). The trouble with wedlock is that there's not enough wed and too much lock. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-trouble-with-wedlock-is-that-theres-not-45307/
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Morley, Christopher. "The trouble with wedlock is that there's not enough wed and too much lock." FixQuotes. March 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-trouble-with-wedlock-is-that-theres-not-45307/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The trouble with wedlock is that there's not enough wed and too much lock." FixQuotes, 15 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-trouble-with-wedlock-is-that-theres-not-45307/. Accessed 25 Mar. 2026.






