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"The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything"

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Nietzsche doesn’t flirt here; he lunges. The line is built like a provocation, a little bomb tossed into bourgeois comfort. “True man” is doing a lot of dirty work: it smuggles in a norm, a hierarchy, a test of authenticity. The “two things” are not hobbies but a moral program. Danger is the antidote to domestication, the refusal of safety as a life-ideal. Play is equally loaded: not childish leisure, but the agonistic, rule-bending experimentation Nietzsche associates with strength, creativity, and the will to power.

Then comes the turn that makes the sentence sting: woman as “the most dangerous plaything.” It’s a rhetorical trap. On one level it reveals a 19th-century misogyny that treats women as instruments in a man’s self-overcoming, a scenic prop in his drama of risk. “Plaything” shrinks a person into an object whose value is measured by the intensity she generates in him.

On another level, Nietzsche is also admitting something he can’t quite control: that desire is destabilizing, that intimacy threatens the fantasy of the self-sufficient “true man.” Calling woman “danger” is a backhanded confession that masculinity is fragile, easily unseated by attachment, dependence, or the chaos of erotic power. The wit is cruelly efficient: he elevates risk as virtue, then uses women to personify the risk, so any resistance can be dismissed as cowardice. It’s not just sexism; it’s a strategy for making domination sound like existential courage.

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Verified source: Also sprach Zarathustra (Friedrich Nietzsche, 1883)
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Zweierlei will der echte Mann: Gefahr und Spiel. Deshalb will er das Weib, als das gefährlichste Spielzeug. (Erster Teil, Kapitel „Von alten und jungen Weiblein“ (often numbered Part I, Chapter 18 in English editions)). This is the original German sentence in Nietzsche’s own text (not a later quote compilation). The commonly-circulated English wording (“The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything”) is a translation/paraphrase of this line from *Also sprach Zarathustra*. The chapter is in the First Part (Erster Teil). *Zarathustra* was published in parts: Part I appeared in 1883 (Part II and III in 1884; Part IV in 1885 as a private print). This line is in Part I, so its first publication is 1883. Page numbers vary by edition/translation; the chapter identifier above is the stable locator.
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Nietzsche, Friedrich. (2026, February 8). The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-true-man-wants-two-things-danger-and-play-for-299/

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Nietzsche, Friedrich. "The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything." FixQuotes. February 8, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-true-man-wants-two-things-danger-and-play-for-299/.

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"The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything." FixQuotes, 8 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-true-man-wants-two-things-danger-and-play-for-299/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.

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Friedrich Nietzsche (October 15, 1844 - August 25, 1900) was a Philosopher from Germany.

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