"The truest help we can render an afflicted man is not to take his burden from him, but to call out his best energy, that he may be able to bear the burden"
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The subtext is a Protestant-era suspicion of pity as a kind of theft. If you remove the burden entirely, you may also remove the chance to develop endurance, character, or self-command. Brooks is careful, though, not to romanticize pain for its own sake. He is talking about "best energy" - not grim stoicism, but a higher register of the self: courage, clarity, faith, will. The moral task of the helper becomes psychological and spiritual: to see the person as more than their wound.
Context sharpens the intent. Brooks preached in a late-19th-century America where reform movements, pastoral care, and emerging social services wrestled with a recurring question: does aid empower, or does it infantilize? His answer threads a needle between compassion and autonomy. It also contains a quiet warning to the would-be savior: your desire to lighten someone else's load can be as much about your own comfort as their flourishing.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Brooks, Phillips. (2026, January 15). The truest help we can render an afflicted man is not to take his burden from him, but to call out his best energy, that he may be able to bear the burden. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-truest-help-we-can-render-an-afflicted-man-is-163714/
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Brooks, Phillips. "The truest help we can render an afflicted man is not to take his burden from him, but to call out his best energy, that he may be able to bear the burden." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-truest-help-we-can-render-an-afflicted-man-is-163714/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The truest help we can render an afflicted man is not to take his burden from him, but to call out his best energy, that he may be able to bear the burden." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-truest-help-we-can-render-an-afflicted-man-is-163714/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










