"The two important things I did learn were that you are as powerful and strong as you allow yourself to be, and that the most difficult part of any endeavor is taking the first step, making the first decision"
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Then she undercuts the mythology of epic journeys with a smaller, more uncomfortable claim: the hardest part is the first step, the first decision. That’s not a motivational poster; it’s an admission about inertia. Big endeavors fail less from lack of stamina than from the psychic cost of crossing the threshold where your life becomes your responsibility. Once you start, the pain is at least legible - blisters, weather, miles. Before you start, the pain is speculative: embarrassment, loneliness, the possibility you’re not who you imagined.
Context matters here. Davidson came of age in a period when women’s independence was both newly claimed and aggressively policed. Her insistence on “allowing” strength reads as a rebuttal to a culture eager to withhold that permission. The sentence doesn’t promise triumph; it argues for agency at the only moment that’s truly yours: the decision to begin.
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Davidson, Robyn. (2026, January 16). The two important things I did learn were that you are as powerful and strong as you allow yourself to be, and that the most difficult part of any endeavor is taking the first step, making the first decision. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-two-important-things-i-did-learn-were-that-134597/
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Davidson, Robyn. "The two important things I did learn were that you are as powerful and strong as you allow yourself to be, and that the most difficult part of any endeavor is taking the first step, making the first decision." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-two-important-things-i-did-learn-were-that-134597/.
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"The two important things I did learn were that you are as powerful and strong as you allow yourself to be, and that the most difficult part of any endeavor is taking the first step, making the first decision." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-two-important-things-i-did-learn-were-that-134597/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







