"The two most precious things this side of the grave are our reputation and our life. But it is to be lamented that the most contemptible whisper may deprive us of the one, and the weakest weapon of the other"
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The intent isn’t merely to moralize about honor. It’s to expose the brutal mismatch between value and vulnerability. Colton is writing in a world where reputation functioned as social currency and survival tool, especially in tight-knit communities and rigid class systems. The subtext is proto-modern: public life is a marketplace of perception, and perception is absurdly cheap to manipulate. A whisper doesn’t need to be true; it only needs to be repeated. That anticipates our current economy of virality, where the smallest insinuation can harden into a permanent label.
His lament carries a quiet accusation, too. The real danger isn’t just the whisperer or the weapon; it’s the crowd that grants them power. Colton’s bleak insight is that society routinely treats rumor as evidence and fragility as fate, then acts surprised when reputations and bodies break.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: Lacon; or, Many Things in Few Words (Charles Caleb Colton, 1820)
Evidence: THE two most precious things on this aide the grave are our reputation and our life. But it is to be lamented that the most .contemptible whisper may deprive us of the one, and the weakest weapon of the other. A wise man, therefore, will be more anxious to deserve a fair name than to possess it, and this will teach him so to live, _as not to be „afraid to die. (Aphorism DL V; printed p. 235 in the 1820 3rd edition scan (PDF page 238/278)). This is a primary-source occurrence in Colton’s own work. Many secondary quote sites cite it as “Lacon … § 555,” but in the 1820 third-edition scan the item is numbered with Roman numerals as “DLV.” The wording also differs slightly from the version you supplied (“on this side the grave” vs. “this side of the grave”). Title page in the scan states “THIRD EDITION … 1820.” Other candidates (1) Recipe For Peace Now (Jd Beller, 2009) compilation99.6% ... The two most precious things this side of the grave are our reputation and our life . But it is to be lamented th... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Colton, Charles Caleb. (2026, February 20). The two most precious things this side of the grave are our reputation and our life. But it is to be lamented that the most contemptible whisper may deprive us of the one, and the weakest weapon of the other. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-two-most-precious-things-this-side-of-the-148596/
Chicago Style
Colton, Charles Caleb. "The two most precious things this side of the grave are our reputation and our life. But it is to be lamented that the most contemptible whisper may deprive us of the one, and the weakest weapon of the other." FixQuotes. February 20, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-two-most-precious-things-this-side-of-the-148596/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The two most precious things this side of the grave are our reputation and our life. But it is to be lamented that the most contemptible whisper may deprive us of the one, and the weakest weapon of the other." FixQuotes, 20 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-two-most-precious-things-this-side-of-the-148596/. Accessed 1 Apr. 2026.







