"The very fact that you are a complainer, shows that you deserve your lot"
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The intent is classic New Thought ethics: character is destiny, attitude is causality, and suffering is often self-authored. Allen, best known for As a Man Thinketh, wrote in an era when self-help was becoming a secular religion for an anxious middle class navigating industrial churn. In that context, the quote offers a grim kind of empowerment: if you can stop “complaining,” you can supposedly stop the life you’re complaining about.
The subtext is harsher. Complaint isn’t treated as information, or as the first draft of reform; it’s treated as a moral stain. “Deserve your lot” smuggles in a theology of deservingness without mentioning God: poverty, grief, bad work, bad luck become character assessments. It’s an idea that can motivate personal discipline, but it also flatters the comfortable by implying that the suffering have earned their suffering.
What makes it work is its blunt psychological leverage. It targets the one thing a frustrated person still controls: self-presentation. Allen weaponizes pride against negativity, offering dignity through silence. The cost is that it turns legitimate grievance into self-incrimination, discouraging the kind of complaint that becomes solidarity, labor rights, or any honest accounting of power.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Allen, James. (2026, January 17). The very fact that you are a complainer, shows that you deserve your lot. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-very-fact-that-you-are-a-complainer-shows-28365/
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Allen, James. "The very fact that you are a complainer, shows that you deserve your lot." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-very-fact-that-you-are-a-complainer-shows-28365/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The very fact that you are a complainer, shows that you deserve your lot." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-very-fact-that-you-are-a-complainer-shows-28365/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







